Wednesday, February 29, 2012



Sunday, February 26, 2012


Love is something many seek to find, but never really allow themselves the chance to find them. Each season millions of couples are blossomed while another million meet their demise!!!! I myself have been tthrusted back into the single world after a four year relationship. Many of my Milt-Fresh Experience followers got to see my relationship play out before your very eyes on this very blog. Looking back at those days I feel they were some of the bet. I look at the old pictures,blog posts and I wonder where did it all go wrong? How could you drive apart two people that were at once so tight. But as time goes on, individuals change. The needs that that an individual had 4 years ago, aren't the same needs you have in 2011-12. I asked myself many times is there anything I could have done differently to salvage the relationship? Initailly the only thing I would have changed would be my temper and my anger. I wouldn't have allowed myself to become so over whelmed by the situations that occured. However, when one feels like they've drawn the short end of the stick how do you react? One would say be more understanding. But in order to understand, one would have to be given the chance to understand. One would say become more of a giver? What happens when the receiver doesn't have time for the giver? Others would say communicate more. But what happens when communicaton turns into a war of words? The individual you've grown to love becomes a stranger befor your very eyes. What happens when a dozen red roses aren't enough to warm a heart? What happens when "I love you texts" mean nothing anymore? all of these and many more are what happened befor the end of the relationship. On a spiritual level I asked God why would this have to happen at a pivital point in my life. up until June of last year, 2011 was one of my best years. I life was finally coming together. My blog the Milt-Fresh Experience was taking off!!!! I ws introduced to the world of Internet radio with becoming co host of Vintagesoul Radio. I had people in the New Haven area believing in the Milt-Fresh brand!!! I tried my hand at owning my own business. Man it felt like good was answering every prayer I prayed. All except one, which was to keep me and my partner together. But like job,who am I to question what god does? But because of the things that were happening leading up to the end, I found myself falling into a depression. My enthusiasm for fashion blogging died. I allowed my business to go under. The only thing that was able to keep me going, was doing Vintagesoul Radio. Because of how I felt I became ungratful for the things god had blessed me with. Many would tell me "Milt theres no reason why you can't become a player again." Very true, however i've changed since my player days. In order to be a player, one has to have no fear of the word Karma!!!! For karma is what you will receive for playing with the emotions of females. But others would counter with " Well look what happened tp Milt-Fresh after being a gentleman." Also I say true. However, I feel it takes a special woman to enjoy the perks of being with a gentleman. Most independant women of 2012 feel like they're giving up their freedom by allowing a man to even open the door. In the end I take a lot away from this past experience at love. For one I take away that a person has to love you the same as you love them. At the same time you can't treat the individual like they're more your god and not your lover. Even though I go through bouts of denial. I feel the God used this break up as a wake up call. I feel he was telling me there is no body greater than him. The same way she came into your life, the quicker she can go. But God's love never abandons you. God's love always has time for you. God's love is always is there for you with open arms.


Now granted these aren't the velvet slippers that Many of the Dandies sport, however these Stacy Adams slippers deammed the scallywags are def a pair that I would sport out in public. Def would have to make sure the rest of the outfit was solid in order to balance out the slippers!!!!


Bobby Brown wasn't the only individual who caught a lot of flack at the funeral of Songstress whitney houston!!!!R&B singer Jaheim stepped out in a purple zoot suit with a redish black ruffle shirt and black dress shoes. Let me say this, as a man who catches a lot of flack for many of the wardrobe choices when it comes to suits and getting dressed up, it takes a lot of balls to wear a suit of this nature!!!!! Specially living in the Bespoke suit era,where society forces you to dress in a suit that's so tight fitting that a man's private parts can't breathe. Then it takes guts to wear such a suit to a funeral!!!!! Looking out amongst a sea of black and you see a bright spot amongst the crowd. The utter distain for his outfit spilled from the ceremony to twitter. soon Jaheim comenced to going to war with twitter about his outfit. We at the Milt-Fresh Experience salute Jaheim crushing this suit and having the guts to feel comfortable in it!!! One thing i've learned from my years in this stunt game, people hate individuals who break rules. People are afraid of change. People are afraid of things that break tradition. It's not his suit that people have a problem with. It's where he chose wear it. When you think of a funeral, you think of a sad time. A time of sarrow, however a funeral was meant for celebrating. Yes I know you think i'm crazy, however it's the truth.When a person passes away they have detached themselves fromthe hardships of this life. No more car taxes!!!! No more bills!!!! No more struggling to keep up appearances!!!! No more heart break!!!! No more haters!!!!! One glad morning when this lif is over i'll fly away!!!! Like a bird from prison bars have flown!!!!! And instead of wearing a dark, dreary, and depressing black suit, Jaheim desided to break convential tradition and step out lively!!!! Message to Jaheom: The haters are always gonna be on you for steppong outside of the box!!! Use all of the bad press a free promotion and stunt even harder!!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

MY TURF!!!!!

Ryan Leslie Killin the Fur Jacket at ASAP Rocky Listening Party

One of my favorite Producer/singers Ryan Leslie is always one of the best dressed indiduals on in music. For up and coming harlemrapper Asap rocky's listening party, R Les took stuntin up a notch by killing it with a browwn fur jacket. If you follow the Milt-Fresh Experience you would know that wearing fur is def a must. We have no fear of Peta out here!!!! Fur on a man is always gonna be an eye opener. Much respect to R Les for the Fur jacket!!!!! Wish I knew the brand.